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Archive for June, 2011

21
Jun

Tuesdays in June are for Tripp and Tyler and It’s My Birthday

If anyone has heard me preach you can appreciate the fact that Eminem I am not. If my life depended on my ability to free style I might be able to last 30 seconds. Back in the day Run DMC were on the cusp of creative genius with hits like “Walk This Way” they took rap mainstream and Hip Hop was born. Now imagine a free style battle between me and Run of Run DMC. I can imagine it might look something like this…

By the way, for my birthday I would like a Tune Belt for my Droid X and a pair of Sanuk’s. I’d also like lower arena season tickets to UK basketball behind the visitors bench and free travel to and from Uganda for the rest of my life and maybe a pill I can take to get down to 175 without all of this diet and exercise stuff and maybe a full time preaching gig somewhere maybe with Rev Run. Can’t wait for you guys to hook me up. 🙂

20
Jun

So how are the kids adapting?

This may be the single most frequently asked question I get since returning from Uganda with the three newest additions. I don’t want to discourage anyone from continuing to ask that question, but the reality is that the kids adapted within the first few hours of being placed in our care the day we arrived in Uganda.

Now, they still have their issues. I mean they are little, cute untamed balls of original sin, but that’s no different than any other child.

The question, or questions, everyone should be asking is, “How are you adapting?” “How have you been transformed as a person, dad, husband, friend, son, brother, pastor, etc.?” What work needs to be done in your life, Robert?”

When I got the call on a warm Southern California January morning that a third child was now in the picture I had all of the confidence in the world that Kristi and I would make it work. What I wasn’t prepared for was that I wasn’t prepared. I thought I was prepared, but the little things are what always sneak up and derail you.

I wasn’t prepared for the increase in noise, the worldview of our new children that they should be able to get anything that they want, bed wetting, and five soccer players on four different teams. I wasn’t prepared to discipline differently. I wasn’t prepared for the change of expectations for my wife and the struggle she would have with the fact that the laundry won’t always be caught up nor will the floors always be clean.

What about this one – I never saw a need for having a deep freeze, but if we want to quit going to the grocery store twice a week, then we better get one.

The good news is this…God is always in the midst of preparing me, and while I may never be completely prepared for life’s situations He will never fail to sustain me in my development as His son. I was a pretty confident Dad before February, and now I realize I have a lot yet to learn and that’s a far better place to be – unprepared and yet confident in the result.

19
Jun

My Birthday Week – A Post Every Day

Being it Sunday, the first day of my birthday week. I had to share a music video that resonates with something deeply inside of me on many a Sunday.